Breast Cancer Survivor
Bill's Story
I was diagnosed with breast cancer in June of 2016 after finding a lump in my right breast. I knew about breast examinations because my wife Diana was a breast cancer survivor. Although breast cancer is not that common in men (1 in 800 – which is a whole lot better than 1 in 8), action was required. Mammogram, biopsy, mastectomy, 5 years of Tamoxifen and now 9 years of living as a cancer survivor.
A large part of any cancer story is knowing about the disease by being informed, by learning through research (yes, use the web) and having a healthcare practioner to assist you through the process. Our family physician was there for me – maybe going through the same process with my spouse was a help. Today, having a family doctor or nurse practioner is not always possible, so one must be your own advocate.
A large part of any cancer story is knowing about the disease by being informed, by learning through research (yes, use the web) and having a healthcare practioner to assist you through the process. Our family physician was there for me – maybe going through the same process with my spouse was a help. Today, having a family doctor or nurse practioner is not always possible, so one must be your own advocate.
However, it is after the diagnosis and treatment that so much depends on how your life will unfold. You need support. Support not only from your family, but in the community. My wife and I both benefited from a major support group for breast cancer survivors: North Bay’s The Warriors of Hope Breast Cancer Survivors Dragon Boat Racing Team. I had been with the team since its founding, but only as a supporter. As a Survivor, the “girls” insisted I pick up a paddle and join them. What a team!
One of the comments heard by a Survivor who makes a ‘no-no or social misstep’ is “whoops – chemo brain!” but although the chemo treatments and radiation effects can muddle you for a while, it is that realization that once you have faced cancer, it becomes your shadow. When that shadow appears, that is when you need support, reassurance, and knowledge.
Be well.
